Hearing loss is an issue that most often manifests itself slowly, making it harder to initially observe.
It is quite common for family and friends to notice an onset of hearing loss before those suffering realize themselves. This can lead to the likely uncomfortable position of trying to convince the person they care about to seek out help.
There is no step-by-step guide on how to talk to someone about hearing loss. Each case will be unique and require different tactics. But there are some general guidelines that can help you determine the best way to approach the topic.
If you are going to approach someone about their hearing loss, you want to make sure you have all the necessary information ready to go. There are innumerable resources available online that can help you gain a strong foothold on the topic of hearing loss. When it’s time to talk, you’ll be more than ready to answer the initial questions they’ll have on the topic.
To help you get started, here are some top resources on our hearing care blog:
· Invisible impacts of hearing challenges
· Types of hearing loss (and what it means for your hearing care)
· What happens during a hearing test
It’s also a good idea to have information on a few local hearing care providers so they can easily act if they decide they want to seek out help.
Of course, we are biased on the subject, but Professional Audiology is always ready and willing to help. Here’s more information about why to choose Professional Audiology in Edmonton.
This is a big one, as many people avoid receiving hearing care because of outdated impressions of what that care might look like. Hearing aid technology has come a long way, especially in the last decade.
Some major improvements to hearing aids include:
Hearing aids are longer are hearing aids large, bulky and cumbersome. A fear of being judged in public and thought of as being very old due to wearing large visible hearing aids is a concern no more, as many modern hearing aids are quite difficult to notice.
You used to have to carry around small (and easily losable) cell batteries to charge your hearing aids. The whole process of powering them could be an awkward affair. No more, as most modern hearing aids come with rechargeable batteries, allowing you to charge them just as you would your cellphone.
Hearing aids have advanced right alongside modern technology, allowing them to be easily adjustable and endlessly adaptable. You can now control your hearing aid settings directly from an app on your smartphone, and you can even use them as Bluetooth headphones for music, podcasts or taking phone calls directly.
As hearing loss often emerges slowly, it can be very common for those suffering not to notice right away. They grow accustomed to the changes over time without even knowing it.
What they aren’t aware of is their brains are having to work even harder to decipher the degraded inputs they receive. Unfortunately, this is tied with a greatly increased risk of dementia for people suffering from hearing loss.
If you don’t share with the person you care about what you’ve noticed about their degrading ability to hear, they might continue to go on unaware of the damage. This affects not just them but also those around them.
A loss of hearing ability won’t just affect those suffering. It can absolutely have an impact on everyone in their orbit. It is also quite possible that you may be enabling them to delay seeking help through your actions towards them.
If you are repeating yourself, raising your voice, or generally changing the way you communicate with them because of their hearing loss, you might just be helping to delay them searching out help.
Of course, this is a tight needle to thread. You don’t want to ostracize the person by avoiding communication, but it is certainly important to let them know how their hearing loss is affecting you and those around them.
Not too many people want to face a difficult task alone if they don’t have to. You can be a powerful ally for someone by offering to join them for their appointments, showing them that they’re not alone in this process.
At Professional Audiology, we always welcome friends or family to join – especially for the first consultations or hearing tests.
Coming to terms with one’s own loss of abilities can certainly be a difficult process. And this process will be different for each person. A stern and authoritarian approach will almost certainly push away the person you are trying to help.
Choosing an appropriate time to talk to someone about their hearing loss can go a long way. Listening thoughtfully to their concerns and showing a desire to earnestly help can make the difference in whether someone will seek out help or continue to suffer.
Make sure to put their needs ahead of yours, and approach them with kindness and care. You will likely be able to help them on their path to better hearing health.
At Professional Audiology, we really do understand the complexities of hearing loss. We know how it impacts not just those with hearing loss, but also their family and friends as well.
There is no one answer on how to convince someone to seek out care for their hearing loss, but we are always happy to help. Feel free to send us any questions you may have.
If you or someone you know is suffering from hearing loss, you can book an appointment with Professional Audiology. Even if you don’t have hearing loss, you are more than welcome to join.
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Edmonton - Hys Centre
11010-101 Street NW, Unit #107
Sherwood Park – Emerald Hills Office Tower
8005 Emerald Drive, Unit #827 (second floor)
Evening appointments available.